"This summer, I ain't finna say, 'Next summer, I'm finna...'"

It's been a minute, but I'm right back in it. For those of you who know me well, you know about The List. This list is not your typical to-do or grocery list. Nay, The List is all about having fun. Actually, let me rephrase that. The pseudo-bucket list I keep on my cellphone (R.I.P. to the list I lost when I got a new Blackberry over spring break), includes every restaurant I want to try, books I want to read, songs to download and places I'd like to visit. Problem is, I spend so much time tackling the non-listed mandatory to do's that I don't often get around to The List. But, that's about to change, people. Summer's here, and if I've learned anything since college, I learned that you have to seize the do-nothing moments, and do something. I've embraced my sense of adventure over the past few years, and I don't want to lose momentum now. I've felt a little anxiety lately fending off the barrage of "what's next?!" questions, (which I suppose people think is a welcome topic for a 23-year old grad school graduate with no job prospects? please, stop.), and I need a way to refocus my energy on something positive...something memorable. I'll admit it. I love a challenge as much as I love chicken wings. But, this list isn't about stressing myself out over meaningless challenges just to prove my willpower to myself. Like that one summer I forbid myself from eating fast food and the place I was staying in didn't have a kitchen. Genius. Nope, this list means it's time to get up, get out, and do something I enjoy.

The List: Summer 2012 Edition*

1. Speak Spanish/learn a new Spanish word every day

2. Carry a water bottle.

3. Eat salad every day...any toppings allowed including bacon.

4. Read at least 3 fiction books that have nothing to do with medicine or history.

5. Try 3 new drinks and 3 new beers.

6. Try eggs Benedict.

7. Have a frittata.

8. Swim! Preferably with my head under water, but at least be in the pool, arms windmilling.

9. Blog often...mostly about my experiences experiencing The List.

10. Eat lots of fruit.

11. Wear bright colors.

I'm sure I'll think of some more things, but for now, these are my summer must-do's. What's on your summer manifesto?

*(Inspired by the good folks at Lifehacker.)

UPDATE:
12. Be "on the blogs" to stay current with new music. 

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It's About Time!

We all have our excuses. “It’s been a long day.” I need to relax.” “I’ll skip lunch tomorrow.”  Whatever the reason, we have all been there. And, ‘there’ is as far away from the gym as possible. The benefits of having a consistent workout regimen are huge: healthier hearts, reduced blood pressure, and even an improved mood and lowered anxiety levels. So, what’s the problem? Why is more than half of the country physically inactive, when the CDC recommends at least 150 minutes of exercise per week?

One of the biggest reasons to skip the gym is because we are dedicating time to something else… but, this is where we can start making the most change. Schedule exercise time just like you schedule business meetings or study groups, and stop looking at appointments with the gym as a date with torture. The CDC’s Physical Activity page suggests taking a few 10-minute walks each day of the work week, to break up your routine. Need to touch base with a client? Put on your walking shoes and take the call outdoors! Take the stairs to your apartment, or carry hand-weights while you walk the dog. By adopting these new habits, you can start slowly, and build up to 150 minutes or more. Exercise is important for people of all abilities, and the National Center for Physical Activity and Disability recommends kayaking, tai chi, and other routines as alternatives for vigorous exercise.

We all have our excuses, but as APHA’s National Public Health Week approaches, we are reminded that every minute we make an excuse not to work out, we are increasing our risks for not-so-minute health problems. Make time for yourself and your health, even if it means rescheduling your day. Your improved attitude and fitness are worth every minute! 

Happy [New Year] Birthday to Me

"I guess you can't follow up a praise with a 'but', can you?," said the almost-birthday girl.

That would be me. A year ago, as Facebook thought was appropriate to remind me tonight, I was packed and ready to move to Maryland and start graduate school at GW. The 2009-2010 school year was one of great expectation, disappointment, and then finally, reassuring clarity I prayed for, but never really knew what the answer to that prayer would look like. 2010-2011 answered that question...so, what was clarity?

It was 15 hours in a car ride with my daddy, who drove me up to the DMV. Hours stacked up, like an arsenal of love, to buffer the times when I wish I could hang out with him, but am too far away to snuggle into my reserved spot on his shoulder while watching NCIS.

It was my first apartment, completely furnished, and more affordable and spacious than any grad student deserves.

It was a grade point average valedictorians are envious of, and course material I was impassioned about. Who likes going to class? Celeste does.

It was finding a new hobby, in performing spoken word, and enjoying the sound of applause after the echo of my own words fades from the speakers.

Among the many blessings, I faced some of the greatest challenges I have ever faced in my young adult life. No close friends or family near by, I was forced to the front lines in the war many people lose each day- being myself. Orlando was training camp, and Washington D.C. was the battleground.

To the victor go the spoils.

I'm writing this between sips (straight from the bottle) from a new wine I bought at Trader Joe's on my first shopping trip to the grocery store as a resident of the District. White Lambrusco is bringing in the year of 23- the year of anti-cavalier. I don't have time or patience to act as if every day is not crucial to becoming more of who (whom?) I am destined to be. 23- the year of paying attention- to my school work, to my networth, to the relationships I want to keep, and the relationships I want to build. 23- the year I applied to medical school, took the MCAT twice (as of Tuesday afternoon), and realized no matter what it takes, being a doctor is all I want to be. 23- the year I finally opened myself up to exploring romance, and whether or not it works out, I can tell you already, I'm glad I took that leap of faith.

I tried to complain about being by myself on my birthday. Tried to gripe about not being sure if a birthday cake, card, and presents would arrive by the 20th at midnight. I tried to be ungrateful and somber, and wayyyy too poetic about what is and will remain the most simple and blessed fact of today: that I am here, another year, another day, another moment to experience all that is laid out for me to see. I didn't know that this is how I would bring in my 23rd birthday, and the way this bottle is being drained, who knows what will happen by midnight? But, I'll tell you one thing- I'm not drinking to hide from reality. I'm toasting the truth- that I'm happy to be alive, and continuing to find that clarity I asked God for a long time ago.

If you're still reading this rant, know that you too can be as deliberate and deep and poetic as you want about your birthday. But, dude. You may not have much time to be sad. There's no guarantee you'll have another one, so reflect on where you've been and step boldly to where you're going. I promise, you won't be alone on the way. We're all just out here figuring out what's next. Toast to your damn self, and live life as if everyday was the anniversary of your glorious arrival on earth.

So cheers. (sip sip) Happy Birthday, Celeste.

More Than Words

Last week Wednesday was rainy, but not gloomy by far. A week before, the fabulous Spring weather in the DMV had my mom thinking she's cut out for the northern life. But her spring break visit was too short and sweet, and I was again hit with reminders of my first real winter, which I'd only just begun to forget about. Funny how sunshine and khaki shorts can make you forget what a scarf around the neck even feels like, huh? And, who knew there was actually a difference between my regular seasons: hot and cold? This Floridian didn't. Either way, Sparkle and I made the trek down to Washington that morning, yes, without a GPS...but it took me about 15 minutes longer than it should have to make it to campus. Work in progress. The occasion for Sparkle's guest appearance in the District? A spoken word event, hosted by me, sponsored by the Black Public Health Student Network. You probably saw me mention it on Facebook, Twitter, BBM, gmail...you get it. I was pubbing like crazy, and thrilled at the opportunity to rub elbows and exchange poems with some of DC's best. These guys and gal competed in the huge slam event, Graffiti DC, they have YouTube video views galore (that's when you've REALLY made it), and all came highly recommended. I knew the highlight would be watching and listening to the other poets, maybe soaking up some of their talent through osmosis.

By 6pm, Sparkle was parked and unloaded, turkey sandwich platters and water bottles graced the tables in the on-campus lounge, and the neosoul Genius mix was spewing acoustic inspiration from the Bose speakers. Those who attended left with smiles on their faces, and I left with an uplifted and inspired mind (and two new BBM contacts, but you expected that, didn't you?) It's safe to say, everyone, that I LOVE spoken word. And, I am IN LOVE with performing it. But, this is a relationship that I may have to treat like a long-distance lover for a while. I'll only see my poetry book on weekends here and there. I've neglected the blogging and poem writing for a while because I'm giving this MCAT thing and school all I've got. Trying to, anyway. Keeping up the stamina problem after Chemistry problem after Physics problem is tough...and here I am wasting perfectly conscious night time minutes on a memory.

But, I can't stop thinking about it.

Sharing my words with the crowd, mostly strangers, and getting a few under-the-breath moans of agreement and head nods, that was a reassuring feeling I hope will never feel jaded. Being appreciated, being understood. Closing your eyes, and hoping that when they open, those people in the crowd who could boo you, make eye contact to give props, instead. They feel whatever you were feeling when you raised your voice and didn't even mean to get loud. You hope they can resonate with the emotions you croon in octaves you didn't even know you could reach. Will they get it? That was my big fear before I went up to perform. But when I started reciting my poem, I forgot about crowd appreciation, and I just listened to the woman who was up there baring her soul through my voice and lyrics- the woman I wrote about who I'd met nearly a year ago. I channeled her pain when I wrote it, and I believe we all ended up tuned in.

Here I go getting poetic again. Time to hit these notecards and catch the train back to the apartmadorm, folks. See you soon.

Lip-service, a.k.a. "chirps from birds."*

The year is 2007. It was a national day of remembrance, and a day Curtis Jackson will certainly never forget. With bated breath, hip-hop fans awaited the official results, and people who bet on "at least 300,000 more units sold” probably felt like Miss Cleo, reincarnated. By the end of the first week, it was confirmed. The career of the most bulletproof rapper in hip-hop had been shot down by a former art student who loved to rap about his mommy.

Just a year before the historic album-release battle, Twitter was founded, and within two years of Kanye West’s historic victory, mobile phones and internet connections across the nation were accessing this online schoolyard. Everyone, and their best friend’s college roommate’s ex-girlfriend, tries to outwit each other with 140 characters worth of pure genius…or is it pure bullshit? It seems to me like many of the people who were forced to back up their big talk in the real world, now have the luxury of beefing up their prowess from the soft shoulder of the information super-highway. Party promoters can boost an event by guaranteeing it will sell out, and as they press send from their TweetDeck, a full stack of unsold tickets sits on their desk and continues to collect dust. Men and women who swear they keep it real fill timelines with posts about all the drama they aren’t about. Luckily, the person they are writing about has yet to create a Twitter account, so, there's no chance of getting caught and backing up all of the shit they’ve been talking.

Just like Fifty Cent tried to brush off his supremely embarrassing defeat by the Louis Vuitton Don, people use Twitter as a gimmick to beef up their social life and fend off any real-life self-doubt. I have no problem with self-esteem, nor do I have a problem with other people having high esteem of their @#&$#%^%@%#ing self. What I do have a problem with, however, is how our generation has become this pretentious and self-righteous group of naysayers and complainers. Everything is less than perfect, and nothing is worth bragging about, unless we or our friends are involved…and then, it’s the biggest accomplishment anyone this side of the Milky Way has ever witnessed. Everyone is stunting…by association. Every new Polo purchased is a pump of hot air into a head already filled up with its owner’s infallible opinion.

As always, you know who I blame: Hip-hop. Don’t get this twisted; I’m a lover of a perfect verse over a tight beat. But, I can’t stand to see men and women who haven’t seen half of life’s ups or downs exclaim that they’ve figured this thing out, and then proceed to tell the rest of us where our faults lie. Biggie told us that as long as we go from negative to positive, it’s all good. He didn’t talk about his diamonds and stretch Lexuses just for the sake of bragging and stunting on other people, but if you had holes in your zapatos you, too, would celebrate the minute you were having dough. Here’s the difference- you notice the man who runs the town hasn’t much time for blogging. He’s busy running businesses and jetting from country to country- he has no time for jogging your memory about how great his birthday party was last night.

I’m writing this because I think we still have a chance. We have the privilege of living in a world where access to information and opportunity can come at the click of a button. That is neither an excuse nor explanation for us to talk more and add more nonsense to the atmosphere. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that Twitter caps us at 140 characters, do you? (Of course, someone found a way to Twitlonger.) You’re missing. The point. How about less talk, more using our heads now, huh? How about taking our eyes off of our keypads and putting them back on the #goal? You know, those things we aspired to before anyone even knew how to spell hashtag. Let’s step out of the limelight and stop advertising our accomplishments; instead we can be a person so consumed with and humbled by improving ourselves and others’ lives that people have to beg us for an interview. Let your track record, and not your trackball, do the talking. Then there will be no need to leave the spotlight just to come back and tell everyone you’re still the greatest. No, Hov did that so hopefully we won’t have to go through that.

*the dictionary definition of a "twitter"